Soldering/attaching rear window heater tab/connector

Hi,
I accidentally pulled the connector, small metal tab, off the rear window heater and would need to re-attach it. I tried soldering but it didn't work. It might be the type of solder I used (just a bog standard around these days), I melted solder on the tab and then pressed the whole thing to the heater (not on the empty patch left after the tab broke off) but it wouldn't hold.
Would anyone have any experience with attaching it? I went to few car glass places but they have no idea what to do. I found some adhesive Frost Fighter online but need to order it from the States and no idea does it work at all so before I do that I thought someone might have done it already.
These days I really miss the window heater so would love to sort it out.
Thanks for any advice!
Igor
I accidentally pulled the connector, small metal tab, off the rear window heater and would need to re-attach it. I tried soldering but it didn't work. It might be the type of solder I used (just a bog standard around these days), I melted solder on the tab and then pressed the whole thing to the heater (not on the empty patch left after the tab broke off) but it wouldn't hold.
Would anyone have any experience with attaching it? I went to few car glass places but they have no idea what to do. I found some adhesive Frost Fighter online but need to order it from the States and no idea does it work at all so before I do that I thought someone might have done it already.
These days I really miss the window heater so would love to sort it out.

Thanks for any advice!
Igor